🎵Right Foot In, Right Foot Out🎵:

Why Not Choosing Is the Most Powerful Move Right Now

January didn’t end softly.

For many people, it felt like we went from momentum and motivation straight into something more subterranean—an undercurrent that pulled us inward whether we were ready or not.

February continues that inward motion, but with a very specific tone:
instability without collapse. movement without resolution.

Or, put more simply:
🎵right foot in, right foot out🎵

The Universe can have a twisted sense of humor sometimes, and this month the spiritual practice seems to be "The Hokey Pokey".

So, if you’ve felt yourself stepping into clarity… then pulling back.
Touching something real… then retreating.
Feeling moments of insight followed by confusion or hesitation—

You’re not failing.
You’re not stuck or lost.
You’re mid-turn.

And that’s exactly where this month lives.

The Discomfort of the Middle

We’ve been trained to believe that clarity comes from choosing:

a side
a position
a belief
a conclusion

So when we find ourselves oscillating—stepping in, stepping out—the mind labels it weakness, indecision, or avoidance.

But February is revealing something different:

The middle isn’t confusion.
It’s integration.

The discomfort comes from staying present long enough for opposing truths to coexist without judgment.

The ego hates this. It wants resolution. It wants certainty. It wants to declare something right so it can discard the rest.

But the work right now isn’t to decide.

It’s to stabilize.

What’s Surfacing isn’t Random

You may notice this oscillation showing up as:

a childhood memory brushing the edge of awareness
an emotional state that doesn’t match your current life
a familiar heaviness without an obvious trigger
a quiet “why is this here again?”

This isn’t regression.
It’s a revealing.

What’s surfacing is often an old belief, wound, or survival strategy that once protected you—but now limits you.

The invitation isn’t to judge it or fix it.
It’s to see it clearly without choosing against it or identifying with it.

That neutral witnessing is the Zero Point.

When Old Measures Stop Working

Many people are realizing something unsettling:
the old ways of measuring success—approval, productivity, performance, image—don’t land the way they used to.

Not because something is wrong with you.

Because you’ve outgrown the framework.

When external measures lose authority, things can feel disorienting:

less fulfillment for the same effort
less clarity despite more planning
less rootedness in what you’re building

That wobble isn’t a problem.
It’s feedback.

Core values—not cultural ones, not material proof—are becoming the compass. And core values don’t respond well to pressure, polarity, or urgency.

They require presence.

Which means you can’t rush this.

The Storm Isn’t the Enemy

February carries a storm quality—not because everything is collapsing, but because something is clearing.

Storms disrupt. They also create space. They dismantle what can’t hold and make room for structures with more integrity.

The mistake is focusing only on the destruction and missing the clearing.

The deeper question this month asks is simple:
What if what’s unraveling is creating room for something more honest to exist?

Holding that question—without rushing to an answer—is the practice.

Thriving Isn’t Striving

Some of the most resilient ecosystems exist in places that look barren at first glance.

Life adapts. Life persists. Life becomes intelligent under pressure.

You were designed the same way.

Thriving doesn’t require ideal conditions. It requires coherence.
A way of being. A posture. A perspective that can hold tension without collapsing into fear.

This is why focus matters so much right now.

What you look for, you will find.

Chaos and blessing can exist at the same time.

The work is not choosing one over the other—but learning to hold both without fragmenting.

Gentle Power + Simplicity

February also asks for gentleness—not passivity, but protective strength.

If you feel fragile, it isn’t weakness.
It’s formation.

What supports you now is simpler than you think:

safety
clarity
fewer false obligations
fewer unnecessary complications
more honest self-check-ins

Ask yourself:

What actually supports me right now?
What drains me without giving anything back?
What am I investing in that isn’t an asset to my life?

Simplicity isn’t regression.
It’s refinement.

The BottomLine

February isn’t asking you to choose harder.
It’s asking you to stop choosing prematurely.

To stay in the middle long enough for integration to happen.
To let judgment soften.
To allow clarity to emerge instead of forcing it.

Right foot in. Right foot out.
Turn yourself around.

Not because you’re lost—
but because you’re reorienting.

There’s a deeper map to this month —

Join me for the February Forecast where God shows us through the language of Paradox, and the Nature of Duality, how to work with chaos and blessing at the same time. The navigation for this terrain requires mindful exploration, and lots of patience!

Be Well. Be Love. Be YOU!